Learn what you need to know to make your romantic relations last

Starting romantic relations is always full of new impressions, excitement, passion. Partners usually are showing an enhanced interest to each other. Communications are filled with bright colors, flirting and joy. It is not surprising that people try to show their most attractive qualities (sense of humor, purposefulness, mind, etc.). This stage in the relations is, as a rule, overcharged with fantasies, hopes, dreams and ideals.

Later, fantasies are being replaced by real vision of each other as real persons. There appear first quarrels, resentments, charges. People learn each other in their communications and would do it often like clumsy dancers, treading on each other's toes, though nevertheless still not losing the desire to go on with their romantic dance.

Romantic relations with real partners

However, at this stage, already problems can arise. For example, lovers imagine that they have found at last a sweetheart always dreamed of, and do not want to part with their illusions. When the partners start to build up romantic relations they are prone to idealize each other. No one wants to understand that they are dealing with a real person. In this case, the relations can’t go far. It is like trying to put a partner into a template, not wanting to take into account his (or her) real, individual features. In such a situation, trying to match an ideal pattern may become dominant and not fitting the ideal pattern becomes a cause of frustration, which ends with the failure of relations. Thus, the acquaintance can terminate, not turning into a lasting relationship. And here a question arises about the ability and willingness of the partners to know themselves in their reality, and what is important, to speak frankly with each other.

Honesty and willingness to talk to each other

Sometimes however, such a stance seriously limits the recognition of each other, and deprives the partner’s opportunities to sincerely love a beloved one. In this case, to talk about their feelings and experiences related with a situation or attitude gives the partners a reciprocal understanding of what is happening.

Openness, honesty and a willingness to talk to each other can make the relationship a unique, valuable, deep and safe, where every partner will feel free, feel that he (or she) is loved and cherished by the other one. When the partners start to build up romantic relations which are healthy and lasting the issues arise that are now being intensively investigated by scientists that specialize in the sphere of relationship psychology. It is very interesting and helpful to read some articles on the site dedicated to the corresponding problems solving referred to as PSYCHOLOGY TODAY.

Love is the most profound emotion which is felt by human beings

For people, starting to build up romantic relations is the most meaningful element in their lives. But the ability to have healthy and loving relationships is not innate. Almost all of us have experienced failed relationships, and most of us have to work consciously to master the skills necessary to make them flourish. The good news is that with effort and perseverance one can overcome the troubles and accommodate the individual peculiarities of a partner.

Yet irritations are inevitable in relationships. It's just not possible to find another human being whose every quirk, habit, and preference aligns perfectly with yours. The fundamental challenge when you start to build up romantic relations, contends New York psychiatrist John Jacobs is "figuring out how to negotiate and live with your partner's irritants in a way that doesn't alienate them and keeps the both of you connected." When marriages don't work, he adds, often the partners are fighting not over big issues but over petty differences in style. "We each have differing values and ways of looking at the world, and we want different things from each other. Such differences derive from our genetically influenced temperaments, our belief systems, and experiences growing up in our family of origin", explains Diane Sollee, founder and director of the Coalition for Marriage, Family and Couples Education, (CMFCE). Also you can read an insightful article "You're Driving Me Crazy!" to learn what you need to know to make your relationship last.

You can read some interesting articles about how to find a true lifelong love and about some existing conflicting opinions on the matter of finding love. You can read some beautiful love poems written by world famous authors. If you are interested in a way women look at men, then read about the ideas women may have about an ideal partner. It can as well be important to know what qualities should possess a modern young woman. You will be aware whether people can really fall in love on the Internet and about the possibility of the creation of a family after dating online, and what should be done to make the right choice when having acquaintance on the Internet.

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