Every woman probably has their own idea about the perfect man.


Every woman probably has their own idea about the perfect man who should be next to her. And this is hardly an ugly guy, devoid of some special merits. Anyway, probably every woman wants to have a decent man. That is, in the view of the majority of women, there is a certain image of an ideal man, sort of a prince on a white horse.


Portrait of perfect man


So what is a perfect man? Psychologists say that an ideal man is someone who takes responsibility for themselves, their family, their actions and words, and they, by the way, not disagree with the case. The perfect man is able to financially support himself and his family that is his main priority in all respects. He is confident in himself, respects others, is honest, resistant to stress, has spiritual values, is able to control his emotions, control his anger. He should be pleasant in communication, engaged in self-improvement, both physical and intellectual, as well as in spiritual plan. The perfect man should be sexually attractive, have good looks, pleasant voice, good taste, should pay attention to personal hygiene and well-groomed. He should treat his woman with awe and love, very much appreciate and respect her, be ready to do everything for her.

So that's the portrait of a perfect man from a woman's point of view, so to say, her idea about the perfect man! But it's by far not all that distinguishes an ideal man from the average. The perfect man, first of all should be a personality that is outstanding from the crowd. He understands people and can build a proper relationship with them. He must be a leader!


Most likely this portrait is not complete. Surely any woman would like to add some specific traits that is important particularly for her, and one can likely enumerate these characteristics to infinity, because there is no limit to perfection. For some woman the most important can be the external appearance, whereas for another one the more important are spiritual quality, kindness and understanding, and for the mother-in-law, for instance, the perfect husband is that will meet such demands like a mansion by the sea, car, fur coat, diamonds. Each woman has her own idea about the perfect man

And how often such a man can meet in the real life, which would be entirely consistent with the above description so that all of these wonderful qualities were present in one man? In a nutshell, a man that would fit mentioned above woman's idea about the perfect man. I think only a very seldom woman can be lucky enough to have a man, in which all is so perfect. I have not met yet such a woman. And I'm not even sure that such men's specimens are generally found in nature. Each man has some advantages, but at the same time, all of them have their drawbacks. I'm not going to enumerate here the men's downsides, it would be too sad and too long. But we all must remember that we all are representatives of the human specie, which has to survive in a tough environment that isn't friendly for any species on Earth.


Men in real life


And how often such a man can meet in the real life, which would be entirely consistent with the above description so that all of these wonderful qualities were present in one man? In a nutshell, a man that would fit mentioned above woman's idea about the perfect man. I think only a very seldom woman can be lucky enough to have a man, in which all is so perfect. I have not met yet such a woman. And I'm not even sure that such men's specimens are generally found in nature. Each man has some advantages, but at the same time, all of them have their drawbacks. I'm not going to enumerate here the men's downsides, it would be too sad and too long. But we all must remember that we all are representatives of the human specie, which has to survive in a tough environment that isn't friendly for any species on Earth.

And how often such a man can be encountered in the real life, which would be entirely consistent with the above description so that all of these wonderful qualities were present in one man? I think only a very seldom woman can be lucky enough so as to know a man, in which all is so perfect. I have not met yet such a woman. And I'm not even sure that such men's specimens are generally found in nature.


So there is no other way for any human being than to try to conform to environments and circumstances of life, but not to sink themselves in vain dreams, although it would have been very splendid, if the most bold dreams had been possible to come true. At the end I'd like to wish our beautiful, kind, sweet and incomparable women to love our strong, industrious, hardworking and loving men such as they are, if you don’t want human kind to extinguish. If real men can not comply with the ideal picture drawn above, so, perhaps, it could be worth to change such an idea about the perfect man, which the women would like to have.








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